InDesign really doesn't like objects that spill over to the adjacent page. Just this month, we fell into this trap when we removed two pages from an otherwise ready-for-press document, and when it was printed we noticed ID had put all of the pages-spanning on top of everything else. That needed reprinting … and it was a full colour job …
So now I always take care to cut off images at the binding page side. It's a bother, but better safe than (again) sorry.
But your outer glow problem is something else. In your case you could try this: draw an empty rectangle on top of the page (taking care to align it exactly on the binding edge); cut your glowing image; select the empty rectangle and use "Paste Into". If I'm correct, this will neatly clip off the glowing border.